If there is one podcast you must choose to listen to, it must be this one. Explained here is an incredible paradigm shift that will sharpen your view of your own mind - the emotional and intellectual - and help you understand your internal struggles and the approach that will really work to deal with it. This in turn will empower you in your relationships with others, which will unltimately empower you in your relationship with Hashem.
Here is explained, in layman's terms, the understanding of the male-female friction that we all sense naturally occurs both in our relationships, and even in our own minds - between the emotional and intellectual parts that also reflect the animal and spiritual. You will finally understand how to find the proper balance.